Filed under The Ups and Downs of Being an Au Pair

Au Pair Guide

Because I have received a lot of questions about au pairing after people have stumbled upon my blog, I decided to create a resource for those looking for this type of info. I unfortunately cannot respond to the emails as promptly as I would like so I thought I should make some basic info available. … Continue reading »

Closing a Chapter

I came to France with the idea I would be here just one year. I wanted to learn a new language, experience a different culture, and most importantly grow. I have to say, that on my last day of au pairing, I can look back and say I have done pretty well. The past 10 … Continue reading »

When Being Civil Goes Out the Door

When Being Civil Goes Out the Door

I always used to be one of those au pairs that said I was so fortunate because I had an incredible family. And I meant it. I really did enjoy my family and legitimately liked spending time with them. S and I became good friends and even my friends thought it was strange how much … Continue reading »

Yet Another Fail

Today was about the 83128430th attempt to get this visa thing sorted. No luck. Pas ici. That is what we were told. One day I will get it. Lets just hope it is in enough time to hold onto this job offer…

Attempt #Gadrillion

I am going to try and go to the DDTEFP (French Department of Labor) today. I am scared. But remaining hopeful. FIngers crossed that I find something out. Or even better… can deposit my file.

Bitter Sweet

Bitter Sweet

I have been so focused on the chaos and uncertainty in my life that I forgot one fact that is certain. I am officially done with being an au pair on April 30th. I am quite excited to get a normal life back. Honestly, being a full-time mommy at the age of 22 to kids … Continue reading »

What if some things are just impossible?

What if some things are just impossible?

The whole time growing up people tell you things like: “you can do anything if you put your mind to it,” and “you can be anything you want.” Encouraging? Yes. Truthful? I am starting to doubt… I have always been a really optimistic person. Partially because although I believe in fate, I also believe that … Continue reading »

Out of Control

Out of Control

I need to write. It is the one thing I have complete control of nowadays. I hate not being in control. And it is something I have somewhat gotten over since being here. But now, after so much time, and so much lost control…I am going a little insane. I can take a little bit … Continue reading »